Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Guruji on Criticism
Guruji on Criticism
How to Deal with Criticism?
You know welcome criticism, why you are afraid of criticism.Criticism shows your strength.If you want to know how much mature you are it depends on when someone criticises you, how you take it.There may be many psychopaths who may not criticise at all, who may keep things in their heart.One who criticizes are very authentic, whatever in their heart they are pouring out.There are two case; One is either they are narrowminded then they critize you out of their ignorance in which case you have to be compassionate or they really want to bring something good in you.So when they critize you they are making you realize your mistake so thatey are so compassionate that you can improve from their criticism.
They are very brave, they have taken a bold step.If their criticism is coming from a space of improving you, thank them.If it is coming from a space of putting you down just laugh at them.In either case you don't have to worry about criticism. You should be strong enough to give and take criticism.This shows real educated person. An educated person will not shy away from criticism nor will he be afraid of criticism.
There is one saying of Kabir he says, 'Keep those who blame you close by, they keep your mind clean without soap and water'. So always have some people who criticize you somewhere around the corner with you, its good!
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
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